If you feel like your ex has moved on, you’ve got a little more work ahead of you! But don’t despair, read these tips so that you can go about things the right way, when it comes to ‘Getting My Ex Back’.
Convince Your Ex They Still Want You
This is the first step you will need to carry out. Unless they don’t want anything to do with you, you still have lots of options going forward.
Be A Friend To Your Ex
This can be really advantageous in a break situation. Show that you understand your ex, as well as being able to spend time together without pressure or drama. This may make your ex realize that they still want you, once the stress and pain of the break-up starts to die down.
Have The Right Attitude
In any communication you have, be sweet with a little bit of sassiness. Getting the balance right is vital, as you want your ex to want you back, without thinking they could just get you back, right now, with no effort. You don’t want to play game or play too hard to get, but you don’t want to make getting you back seem like a boring, easy chore. Get your ex interested in you.
Avoid the old trick of pretending that you’re seeing someone new, if you want your ex back. It may backfire and make you seem desperate, or it could work, making your ex think you’ve moved on. It’s a tough risk, for something that may make your ex jealous. That’s not to say there’s any harm, in a little flirting, when you’re out and about!
Don’t Be Desperate
Keep your cool at all cost, no matter what the situation. Acting desperate, at any time, makes your ex under estimate you. There’s rarely anything more appealing than coming across as someone who’s comfortable with situations, and comfortable with being in their own skin. Desperation is bad news- I hear that if you condense it down, it’ll even repel mosquitoes!
Give Him The Look
What look? The sideways, out the corner of the eye look, that says “You can’t have me”. You can use this to add mystery, even if you’re thinking “How do I get my ex back” while you do it!
Remind Them Of The Good Times
Let your ex know about the good times you shared, but do it casually. This will remind them of how good you were together. Stay away from bad memories and watch out for any stories that start well, but end badly, whatever you do!
That’s Not All
These are just some of the tips that’ll help you out, when thoughts turn to “How do I get my ex back”. I’d like to thank TW Jackson, who wrote ‘The Magic Of Making Up’. His work is the inspiration behind these tips, and many more, which will help you get your ex back.